Being a Woman of Worth

With the world of social media in play, women don’t have a lot of room for making mistakes in they’re personal or social lives. Females have to conscious of every digital move they make, because the consequences outweigh the rewards.

Thus begins the social, sexual and physical withdraws. Woman who don’t know how to be happy act against their desires rather than embrace them. Which means for us guys, less confident and more paranoid women.

This is why in Pick-up men are taught to isolate they’re targets from the group. Because, woman are less likely to feel inhibited by social pressures. Not trying to smash social media at all, but I will admit that the adverse effect it has on the dating world has took its course.

And THE BIGGEST DOWNSIDE…

WOMEN.DON’T.KNOW.HOW.TO.HAVE.CONFIDENCE.IN.THEMSELVES.ANYMORE

I know exactly how you feel Mr.President…

Damn Shame

On this beautiful and glorious Friday afternoon, I’m going to attempt to do what Mabaline and eyeliner does temporarily, and that is give you women a few tips on embracing yourself. You’ll feel happier and more attractive than you have ever been.

1. Be 100% Honest with yourself – Don’t allow yourself to be deluded with doubts of the outcome. Look for answers withing yourself, you don’t need a Guru, Therapist or Dali Llama to help you find the answer to your own questions. Woman have the best intuition, trust yourself.

2. Own it – I’m talking responsibility to yourself. No more, “He made me do it” or “Blame it on the alcohol”. Nor is it “HIS” fault or “HERS”, GOD, your PARENTS, CINDERELLA, or the traffic.

This is life. You get out only what you put back into it. You hold the key to attracting the quality lifestyle that you want. You will find when you do, the sky’s the limit for you, and you will be able to live freely.

Make better choices. Be a woman of your word. You know what happens, if you don’t… you risk the chance of losing value with the people around you.  Follow through with your goals and when you do you’ll start to see your are in better control of your life!

3. Don’t take everything (Rejection) Personal – Another reason why women don’t allow themselves to grow is that everything is taken to heart. Women are obsessed with leaving a good impression on people, even when they’re dating because they don’t want to be seen as a bad person.

Ladies, it’s NOT always about you. Let it GO!

Remember your goals. Remember you have set a higher standard for your life. We are all individually living out our stories. You can’t control someone else’s tale. Don’t allow mindless drama to bruise your ego, so start focusing on your life.

4. Clarity and Confidence – Women, men are attracted to confidence. And women who live out they’re purpose in a clear perspective. You may be having trouble figuring it out. Remember you have to ask yourself the right questions.

Who are you? What traits do you truely like about yourself? Ask a friend what does she love about you. Be brutally honest.

Write down your 3 best qualities, followed by one weakness you want to work on. You’ll find that clarity will then turn into confidence.

Start speaking up for YOU. If a man offends you, SPEAK UP! You disagree with a topic of discussion, SPEAK UP! Go after what you want in life, don’t fear failure.  Once you clearly understand yourself, confidence will follow suit.

5. Stop Emotionally beating yourself UP –  You don’t have an ass, eat and do squats. Stop comparing yourself to Beyonce, Kreayshawn or Jessica Alba.

STOP IT!

Jumping on the scale won’t help. Obsessing over meaningless jargon will only hinder you. Look within, no body is good enough for you until you know that your good enough to you.

Stop with the, “I know I am” Responses and go out and show it with action.  Have a vision for your life mentally and physically. Exercise, take a martial arts class, be a big sister, fuel your spirit with doing this you love to do. Unite your mind body and soul and others will start to embrace the reality of your changes.

The journey is going to be challenging. No, change happens overnight.. Enjoy the process of finally getting out of your childlike tendencies. Embrace the love of friends, and parents, and remember… Don’t take yourself seriously. Learn to Laugh at your mistakes, be calm during adversity, and stay strong in a time of weakness.

P.S. — If a hoe get reckless n’ shit throw your hands to the sky and by the power invested in you.. Tell that hoe!!

Enjoy your weekend FRIENDS!

#HERFAVORITEJUICE