“Absorb what is useful, discard what is useless and add what is essentially your own” - Bruce Lee
Before I left, I listened to Bruce’s words in one of my threads on the forum. After a short time, I grabbed a piece of paper and wrote this affirmation, ((How could I be afraid of approaching, when that’s all I did last year, and look where it got me. I met great people and lots of women and those approaches last year, gave me the confidence to keep going forward)). I embedded the thoughts of NO FEAR into my brain before entering the venue. I had realized that Im already validated by many people as is, so why should I be afraid of meeting people now.
Disclaimer: These Sets are not in the order I discuss them in the FR
I get to vintage and I pay the door girl 3 bucks for a tip and they stamp my arm. Normally, I’d chat up the beertub girl but I decided to keep going. As I begin to greet people my eyes wonder over to what appears to look like a bachelorette party in the middle of the dance floor. After the head count I guesstimate about 14 women in this group. I walk upstairs to greet the bartender n’ such and he offers me a free shot. I’ll never deny a free drink. I run back downstairs and I’m talking to a friend and I notice a 2set at the bar.
I open with a simple, “Hello!!”
The girls look at me and say, “No drink“?! I say, “No, I’ll drink when I want to“. These 2 girls where respectively 8.5s and up, so she asked me again.. and she bought me a drink. I didn’t know if these girls were just easy or just looking to buy a drink for a random dude. My friends Mabel and Randi walk in. Accompanied by to new girls I’ve never seen HBGWGirl and HBNewYork. I chat up the girls for a quick minute with random attraction fluff just to get a vibe from them. I’ve give them a thumbs up for approval.
The very first approach on dancefloor was a 2 set from Boston HBVolleyball and HBAirHead, I’ve found this to be very good with girls that are very tall I open with,
“Let me ask you something…Can you dunk a basketball“?
They both laugh and I stack forward with, “I bet your nickname is ShaqAttack isn’t it“?
They both laugh again, and I ask them where they are from and how they meet up, just to measure the size of the group. Fact is they’re both tall girls. Volleyball is about 6’0 w/o heals and Airhead is about 5’10 and both were attractive. They had theyre hair down, standing in the middle where most of the traffic would come in the club if people were just to walk by them. As I’m talking Forrest walks up, and I really wasnt expecting to see him last night.. so I address him with the usual, I introduce them to the girls.. and he DHVs me about my dancing I think. So, after about 5 more minutes I decided to eject on a good note, I made my goodbyes and went forward with my night.
I move near the bar where the girls bathroom is to find Forrest hanging with some friends and shooting the shit with them. He introduces me and lets me know his presumed target by saying “This is the bad one“. To explain a little about this group, his friend is visiting from Tampa and bought his girlfriend along with 2 friends that just broke up with theyre B/Fs. Forrest’s target seems to need some validation and I can tell by the body language that a single night lay is possible with this girl. HBBikerChick, is a little intimidating with very high energy and not to mention much more wittier than expected. While Im in the group, Flash sneaks up on me and I introduce him to Forrest. After a bit both single girls in the group walk about a foot away and start talking I notice Forrest’s target looking over her shoulder to Flash with eyes of admiration.
“Oh my god, She can’t be attracted to him”, I thought.
I eject from the group and end up finding Mabel/Randi’s group again. We are dancing in a circle, and Randi comes up to dance with me like she always does.. then I tell her, let me dance with the new girl who is HBNewYork, and started to dance. I noticed that she is not only touching me but grinding and rubbing my chest.. so I look down at her, and say, “I’ve never kissed a girl from New York before“. Bam! We start kissing and it gets hot and heavy very quick, I can feel that the other girls in the group are amazed, and they take pictures of her and I kissing. 5mins of making out I pull back and start talking to Flash.
HBNewYork is leaning up against this pillar waving her hands across the face. After I finish talking I roll back to her, and I stand dancing with her, she puts her drink down and takes off her glasses.. and keeps her eyes closed as she dances with me. I start to whisper in her ear, “You got my dick hard“, “I can think about 10 things to do to you right now“, she pushes her body closer to mine.
She starts making sexual expressions on her face while she is grinding her “situation” against my knee. More kissing and heavy grinding followed by her sliding her hands into my pants. I reciprocate as I put my hand under her dress and feel her “situation” and she drops it over my hand to continue. I open my right eye, I observe people watching us and realize I don’t want to embarrass. So, I cut the sexual escalation. She puts her hand on my “situation” and starts jerking it thru my pants… I whisper in her ear, “We need to go“! she looks up at me and says, “But, I need to stay with my girls“! Logistics for the lay was in my favor since I already know the group, all I would have had to do is ask them. But, I let her go thinking I was bouncing to the next club anyway… but I never left!
I realize shortly afterwards that when wanting the lay, I should have taken more of a leadership role instead of asking her if she wanted to leave.
When she mentioned she needed to stay with her friends, I was suppose to tell our friends she’s coming with me for a while. It’s obvious she wanted to have sex with me. But, my actions during the interaction gave her reason to hesitate and heightened her last minute resistance.